Posts Tagged ‘New Orleans’

Socialite

Sunday, May 17th, 2009

I’m typically a wall flower. I hate being the center of attention; unwanted/un-needed attention makes my face and ears turn red. This problem became an even bigger problem when I was in a relationship with Omar. He loved the lime light. I, though, was not as comfortable around tons of people. He deemed me “socially awkward”. Call it socially awkward or whatever else you’d like, I just wasn’t into everyone being focused on me. I’m just not that vain. He’s probably reading this blog post now, thinking to himself- Yes! She has another post about me. Is that right Om? You’re so vain…you probably think this blog post is about you, don’t you? Don’t you?!?

Well, it’s not.

Last weekend, Zack and I were walking out of the  grocery. I was on the phone with my mom and didn’t realize that this couple was waving Zack down. He walked over by them and began talking to them. I finished up my convo with mom and walked over. I try to be conscious of the fact that I don’t want to be socially awkward. The old Cherry would have waited to be introduced. Not the new Cherry though.

As soon as I walked up, I put out my hand to shake each of their’s and proudly introduced myself. The conversation ended about 5 seconds later. I politely said, “It was very nice to meet you both.” Zack and I went on our way to the car.

After we were out of their ear shot, Zack says to me, “You thought I knew those people, didn’t you?”

Turns out they were a bunch of drunks who needed a jump on their car, though the car was running while we were talking to them. I’ve turned into such a socialite, befriending New Orleans’ finest! Take that, Om, who’s socially awkward now, huh?!?

Sonic Blast!

Tuesday, April 21st, 2009

There was never, ever a dull moment when Omar was around. 

We were on the New Orleans West Bank late one night with my folks. I had just bought my car the day before. Literally. I had owned it for a little over 24 hours. My mom was driving my car- at the time, it was my biggest purchase ever as an adult…or really ever for that matter. I wanted my mom and dad to see how nice it was.

Mom decided she wanted a shake from Sonic. Word. The Lord knows I can suck down a shake in no time flat. So we pull into the Sonic parking lot and Omar and I notice a small altercation between the Sonic workers and several other guys. All of them appeared to be very ‘thug-like’. Mom, however, is so set on getting her shake that she sees none of this. Then…one of the guys apparently pulled out a knife.

Omar repeatedly screamed, “He’s brandishing a knife!” Brandishing a knife?!? There’s about to be a gang fight and he uses words like ‘brandishing’?!? Regardless, Mom hears Omar screaming about a knife and tries to back out of the parking spot as quick as she can- forgetting that she still had the car in drive.

She hit the curb and the mean ole curb in turn pulled loose my front fender- again…this is the day after I bought my car. That was the only time Mom drove my car. And none of us got a shake that night either.

I Ruined It!

Thursday, December 11th, 2008

I love the feeling i get when I’m in a new relationship. I feel constantly giddy. Constantly. Learning new things about each, funny little inside jokes…it’s all just so, well, so cute.

Zack sent me a text on a Thursday asking me if I could get off work the next day or Monday. I didn’t really have much vacation, so I said no, probably not. He texts back with “Do you want to go to NYC for the weekend?” I thought to myself, yes, I would love to. He booked the tickets. We were to leave before the sun came up Saturday morning and would be back late, late Sunday night. So I drove down to New Orleans that Friday after work.

We had been dating for a month.

I get to his house; we’re cuddling on his sofa watching tv. By this point, I was totally into the guy. I thought he was the raddest person I had ever met. As we’re sitting there watching tv, he says “I love your eyes.”

I meant to reply with something off-the-wall, yet totally me like “I love your FACE!” (With emphasis on the word ‘face’.) Instead, I stupidly blurt out, “I love you!”

Pause. Silence for a few seconds….seemed like forever.

And he replied, “I was waiting until we got to the Brooklyn Bridge to tell you that!”

And I said nervously, “I ruined it?!?!”

The dilemma here? I’m so silly. Moments like that can’t be ruined- you can plan and plan and plan, but it will happen naturally, sometimes at the most random moments. And instead of saying “I love your FACE!”, you’ll say “I love you” instead.

I guess since he felt the same way, I wasn’t in too much of a dilemma, but I like this story. So it goes in my blog.